• Take time to heal and don’t make impulsive decisions while you’re feeling sad
• If you have a pattern for choosing the wrong guy or girl all the time, redefine what you want in a man or woman so that you don’t fall into the same vicious circle time and again
• Evaluate your past relationships and see them for what they were and look at each experience with truth and honesty. You will discover several things that you would want to change both about yourself and your emotional needs
• Participate in activities that will boost your confidence and make you feel good about being you
• Try not to get into the slump of feeling sorry for yourself. Hang out with your close friends and people who make you happy
• Make a list of things you expect from a relationship so that you have a clear understanding of what you really want
• Don’t ever forget that this too shall pass and that in time you will be happy and be able to love again.
(An extract from an article in Mumbai Mirror -- "The upside to heartbreaks")
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